A-List of Don’ts That Every Husband And Boyfriend Ought to Live By
Understanding a woman can be pretty tricky because they are a complex creature.
So keeping up with the female gender can be challenging and very tasking.
To make this easier, I will be sharing some advice on what you should never do for a blissful relationship and to keep your spouse happy too.
Don’ts That Every Husband & Boyfriend Ought to Live By
- Don’t Be A Closed Book
Be an open book with nothing hidden. To be available means being honest as well, which is one of the foundations of any successful relationship because no matter what people say, a lie will always remind a lie.
- Don’t Pretend That You’re Listening
Doing this in a relationship can be very dangerous because women know when their man isn’t listening.
Communication involves speaking and listening for it to be effective, so you have to be invested in what she says to her, not to feel like she is talking to a wall.
- Don’t Point Out Her Flaws
Always pointing and criticizing her flaws is a big No. It makes her feel less of herself, and it can influence her self-esteem.
It would help if you built her up daily; let there be positive changes because she has you.
- Don’t Stop Treating Her
Your wife is your Queen; treat her accordingly. Don’t dump all the house responsibilities on her, help her around the house, and treat her out to romantic dinners, dates, anything to make her feel special.
- Don’t Put Her Down In Front Of The Children
You are both equal partners, so never talk down at her, especially not in front of the children.
Remember, personal issues should only be solved behind closed doors.
- Don’t Lash Out At Her
If you feel like you are losing your temper, walk away or count to 10; doing this will prevent you from accelerating the argument.
- Don’t Stop Making Her Feel Loved
Put effort into making her know that she is loved, valued, and appreciated.
It can be achieved through words and also actions.
- Don’t Speak Badly About Your Spouse Behind Her Back
Never make fun of your wife or complain about her to other people. If you have a problem with whatever she is doing, discuss it with her, not complain to others.
- Don’t Shy Away From Difficult Conversations
It is essential to her that you can be vulnerable with her. No matter how difficult and uncomfortable a conversation is, go through it with her. Women appreciate transparency.
- Don’t Stop Loving Her
Being affectionate keeps your relationship fire burning. When your intimacy is alive in marriage, you get to enjoy each other as much as you can.